Personal: Rocks and Photographers

Rocks. They’re everywhere. Each consisting of different matters, densities, and textures. We as humans walk and even drive by thousands of rocks on a daily basis. It isn’t until we need one for skipping or other purposes that we actually pay attention to it’s physical characteristics.

Imagine if a rock had feelings. All of them sitting, waiting, jumbled in a big pile together. They spend there time observing others, comparing their strengths, and staring…waiting for someone to pick them up. Some are smooth with a brilliant tarnish and others can be sharp and without consistency. Many can be large and intimidating but be completely light and without substance. And many of them, quite frankly, are just chips off of another big rock.

Photographers. They’re everywhere. Each consisting of different brains, talents, and capabilities. We as humans walk and even come across many on a daily basis. It isn’t until we need one that we actually pay attention to his or her capabilities behind the camera.

Imagine that photographers all had feelings. We are all sitting, waiting, jumbled in a big pile of photographers. We spend our time observing others, comparing our weaknesses, and working…waiting for someone to pick us up.  Some are smooth with incredible equipment and others can be inconsistent.  Many can be large and intimidating but be completely soulless and without substance.  And many, quite frankly, are just big copiers of another big photographer.

Now I’m not trying to be deep.  Trust me.  I’m truly just trying to relate to my fellow photographers.  I can’t tell you how many times I have received emails or heard comments from other photographers about how they can’t keep up with the talent around them.  If I’m keeping it real, I’m letting you know that you’re not the only one that compares your work to others.  You’re not the only one that gets sick when you see an amazing piece of work from a “competing” photographer.  You’re not the only one that gets down about your talents when others are excelling.  I would be lying to you if I, too, hadn’t had these thoughts or feelings in the past.

Let me rewind. Days ago, a beautiful little five-year-old girl spent an afternoon studying the rocks in her backyard.  She found something unique, something that others in her family had walked on or passed by for years.  She bent over, dusted off the dirt and studied it’s characteristics.  She ran inside, wrapped it up in a handmade gift box, and hand-delivered it to my husband, Philip.  He had never seen a rock like it.  It was strong, small, and incredibly crafted and chiseled down to a most unrepeatable shape.

In the Boise area alone, there are thousands of rocks/photographers.  Some might call them “competitors” or “frienemies” of mine, but truly, I have nothing but empathy and appreciation for each of their rare talents, gifts, and characteristics of their own art form.  Each of them have a style that attract different clients.  Tyler Cazier, a classic and traditional photographer that has mastered gathering the beauty of what Idaho has to offer.  He is a veteran and one of the first to set up his own successful studio in the valley.  Nate Perkes, a new and upcoming photographer who captures fish-eye angles and architecture along with beautiful brides brilliantly.  And you watch, his business is about to explode.  Jennifer Ashby, Ashki Photography, Kam Taylor and Tiffany Hix are remarkable women who were born for family photography and portraiture.  Each of them have people skills and talents with not just the camera, but with people as well.  Laura Farris and Audrey Lewis are dear photographers that have the innate ability to dress up and capture the most precious of children.  And others like Crissie McDowell and  Diana Palmer who’s simplicity and vibrancy of colors and angles never let me down.  Even more than that, they are lovable and I consider them to be my friends.

I know there are hundreds of other photographers out there.  Leave a comment, send me an email.  I want to know you.  I want to relate to you and glory in your uniqueness as well.

After all, we might just be a big pile of “rocks” trying to get noticed, but you never know who will pick you up and fall in love with your unmistakable, undeniable, undisputable beauty.

Sarah - Wow. Thank you for this post. Thank you.

Daniel - It takes a confident person to dwell on others talents. Thank you Melissa. You are rare.

Peterson Photography - I NEEDED THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!

crissie - Melissa, you are so stinking sweet. You are seriously such a great person and I LOVE how well you wordsmith your thoughts. Moi!!! You always make me smile.

Ashley Madsen - Melissa!! Love this post. You have so many talents and writing is certainly one of them.

Melany - It brings a sense of confidence to know that I’m not the only one out there that is comparing myself to others. Thanks for the little reminders, Melissa.

Anonymous for many reasons. - Surprising that you wouldn’t feel that writing about other photographers wouldn’t hurt your business. But I like it.

Emily - Great post, my friend. I think your words apply not just to photographers, but to creative people in general. Love it, love you!

Ashley - I agree with Emily. I am “just a mom” but I completely related to this post. I consider myself a unique rock with gifts and talents that maybe no one else has. Sometimes it just takes a slap to the face to remind ourselves that others have worth and things they want to work on as well. Thanks Melissa. A million times, thanks.

Brittany Stover - You couldn’t have put it any more beautifully. You are a “rock”star for sure. Its funny, because we all feel it, but never say it.

Wendy C. Hosch - thank you for your post! i too feel this way and am not scared of other photographers amazing talent. art is all different and inspiring in its own way. and i would want people to hire me because they are in love with my work and style… not because they have a lack of options. more power to ya girl.

Marie Long - You’re great! I look up to you and your work so much! Thank you for reminding this world of photographers that we all have our own unique style! I feel like I have almost found mine.

Kam Taylor - Wow Melissa! Beautifully written and thank you for mentioning me. I couldn’t agree with you more. Big hugs to you and keep smiling my friend!

Laura Farris - Melissa, you have so many talents. I’m amazed at how you can arrange your thoughts into something so beautiful. You really are one of a kind. P.S. thanks for the nod.

Nicole Klingler - So sweet Melissa! Thankyou! You are wonderful!

Christie Petersen - I lovvvve this, thanks so much for posting, it was beauty-ful. I am also a Treasure Valley photog, so this was deeply meaningful.

Audrey Lewis - I really needed to hear this, thanks Melissa! I love seeing other photographers work in the area, and you’re super sweet to include me when I feel like I’m still learning and growing. You’re amazing!

wendy - I was just directed to your blog from a fellow photog. Love the message. And that you can appreciate all of our unique styles and talents. You have a fantastic attitude. I shall be back to visit soon.

Dana Peterson - What a great post. I think it is crazy that I have been shooting and networking long enough that I actually know several of these people you listed, know of several more of them and actually admire most of their work (the ones I don’t admire, it’s ’cause I probably don’t know them). I dream of shooting as well as you (or Laura, Audrey, Tiffany, Diana, Ashki pHotography). It would be my dream to make your list someday. Until then, I will keep at it, shaping my own rock and of course learning from amazing talent like yours!

Candice - Well I’m just starting into the photography world, but in an instant I had 50 new friends/mentors/fellow photogs in the area and I feel so blessed with people that have decided to “remove the mystery”, share their tips/locations, and encourage me as we encourage each other. I have realized their really never can be enough photographers. Now don’t get me wrong. I’m a competitive person. I want the edge. I want to be sought after in a big way, even bigger than anyone else. (Feelings which I have to reign in on a daily basis since being mommy is #1 and I have decided not to implement so many business ideas that swim around in my head constantly). But what I mean is, the world will never run out of unique, beautiful, wonderful people to shoot, locations that can take a new angle and a new perspective from countless photographers, events that can be captured through the eyes of endless photogs in endless ways. We’ll never run out! So to as many people that want to express art, I say, please do! And let’s all enjoy it and learn together! You, Melissa, always inspire me to have a “sharing” attitude when it comes to learning myself, and then helping others. I admire that trait you have and thank you. And on another very important note I send this out into the universe in your behalf: Morning Sickness go away! Come again another day! (Ick! Thinking of you. Hope it doesn’t last long.)

Gabrielle - Very, very inspiring. I feel like there are more than enough families, weddings, babies and special moments for all photographers in this world.

I am new to photography and love your work. I know another photographer — well I don’t know her yet, but we have communicated via email — that is interviewing photogs and doing mini shoots of them in her area. check her out! http://www.amyrosekingphotography.com

Fabiana - Wonderful post. Thank you for sharing your wonderful insight and for reminding us all that we are in this together. It is so comforting to know that were I need assistance, I could call on several area photographers to help me out in a pinch. Looking forward to getting to know more of these amazing photographers!!!

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