All About U: Worth

Depending on the observer, her worth is prominently defined by her outward appearance. She’s dejected, sorrowful, and known in the eyes of the world as “unfortunate”.  Hidden behind a lacerated hat, she shutters at the thought of eye contact.  Her unwashed dress is masked by a somewhat acceptable sweater that not only covers the scent of uncleanliness, but also keeps her warm.

She’s alone and has the strong awareness of being insignificant.   Instead of love, knowledge, and strength, she has only learned survival and how to merely subsist.  She is dark, companion-less, woeful, and desolate.

These characteristics might seem far fetched, but at one time or another, each of us have felt this way. I truly can’t help but get emotional when looking at these photographs.

Why?  Because these inward thoughts are real, and they’re literally, all around us.

A homeless person on the street who has succumbed to substance, the new girl at school who feels estranged, the poor kid in class who feels judged, the single mom who feels unsightly,  the unmarried woman who feels rejected, the overweight man that feels solitary, the father that feels unsuccessful, the son who feels like a failure, the daughter who feels no confidence, and the soul that feels no worth.

A man named Richard G. Scott asks, “With all my capacity I encourage you to discover who you really are.”  I’m a woman of faith, a believer in a higher power.  I believe that if we truly had the chance to reflect, to observe, and to actually see in the mirror the person that we truly were made to be, our fears and self-doubt would simply vanish.

Hidden behind her abandoned hat, her eyes are the most prominent blue.  Under the top of her soiled dress is a loving and swelling heart.  Beneath the stained oils are nurturing and rearing hands.   Disguised by dirty blemishes is a pure and flawless face.  Masked by the noise of the world is a soft, delicate voice waiting to be heard.  And covered by judgments, stereotypes, and heartlessness, is a beautiful soul who’s worth is profoundly and unmistakably infinite.

And is every bit of equal to you and I.

Hair: Michael Gabriel Lyons
Makeup Artistry: Savanah Colbert
Model: Kate Rasmussen

(Behind the scenes and individual shots, click below to enlarge.)

angie monson - wow. these are absolutely beautiful art. love them.

Ashley Madsen - What a powerful post. I was scrolling down to start reading and saw the top of the first picture, thought I’d take a sneak peek, and immediately got emotional over it. There is so much raw truth to this post. I think there are so many different messages to be learned from it as well; learning to become happy with who we are as individuals, treating everyone as equals, not judging, and becoming our best selves through all of it.

Thank you for this post, your amazing words, and these incredible photos. She is a gorgeous little girl.

Layne Boyle - wow! So awesome!!!

crissie - Seriously. You are killing me.

Jolene Monteath - Melissa-

We have only met once, at your reception in AZ, but my husband and I knew Philip the summer before you got married! Anyway, I stumbled across your website love your work. I especially love this post..you’re right, we have all been that girl. Thank you!

Sarah Robinson - Inspiration! Melissa you blow my mind. Your words are touching, your pictures are breathtaking and need to be framed and sold. This is touching! My favorite is the last shot, it tells such a story!
You are a beautiful person with a beautiful talent. I am so lucky to be able to see your art and call you my friend! Keep it up, you can change the world with this type of work!

Marie Long - Oh Melissa! These took my breath away! She was the perfect model for this shoot, and the message is one all should hear.

Niki Massey - Absolutely loved these shots and the message!!! You’re so talented!! Great job!

stephanie - thank you melissa, for saying the words that need to be heard. for reminding us that we are no alone. thank you for reminding us all that people have depth, value, and purpose, no matter what their appearance or place in society. these are who christ died for. and we all are “these”

Brynn - Melissa, I always check you website but I don’t comment enough. This is so neat. You have such a talent to write exactly what your feeling. It is so intertaining to read and it really paints the picture for me. I LOVE these pictures. What a neat thought. The girl you used is so perfect with her sweet little face. Can’t wait to see you in October for the wedding!

Brynn - Melissa, I check your website all the time but I don’t comment enough. You have such a talent to express something through words. You really paint the picture for me. I LOVE these pictures. It is such a neat idea. The girl you used is perfect with her sweet little face. I can’t wait to see you in October!

Jennifer Quinn - “Really?” Is what most of us ask when someone else says that she too has felt like this girl. “Really? YOU?” And the answer is always “Yes.” Yes, yes, yes, yes. We are all so much more alike than we are different. What a blessed and peaceful world we would have if only we could see this.

Melissa, Thank you for sharing YOU.

<3 Jenn

Nicole Klingler - beautiful! Thankyou!

Jake Garn - So, so perfect!

Audrey Lewis - Perfectly beautiful in every way. The words and the stunning pictures that just tug at my heart. Those last two are just precious, thanks for the reminder that we’re all special.

Zuzanna Audette - SO beautiful!

Jolie Molino - Your work is beautiful! I loved reading your work and looking as well!

Kendyl - I am amazed at not only your ability to take beautiful pictures but also to write such amazing words. Thank you for this post. I needed it today.

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