Personal: “Just a Stay at Home Mom”

Years ago, I had a different life. My afternoons were filled with NBC on-air interviews in the dug-out with personalities like Lou Piniella or Ichiro or if I was lucky, a post-game interview with Alex Rodriguez. Soon after, my thoughts were deeply entrenched in marketing and making corporate sales to men in suits that represented big businesses…all to increase Seahawks revenue and to fill the seats at Qwest Field. And occasionally, I was a part of a little boy’s dream by being able to introduce him to his favorite professional athlete or hero. I shopped, I dined, I worked, and I played. Being single in Seattle was the life. So I thought…

I found him, and my life changed. Suddenly my designer shoes and expensive Dolce & Gabana work suits didn’t matter so much. Marriage, children, and the little white picket fence became my priority. I finally became what I always wanted to be; a mom.

However, for some reason, the world didn’t see my new job description as desirable. Friends thought I was crazy for giving up a dream career. As I saw some of my old colleagues on TV, I was shocked that they suddenly lost interest in daily phone calls and updates in my little world.  After all, I was just a “stay at home mom”.

Well I have news for the world.  I am more than just a stay at home mom.  Sure, I went from Nordstroms to Target, full nights sleep to no nights sleep, or designer brands to diaper brands.  But I have more job descriptions to add to my resume.

I am a boo-boo fixer and a tickler.  I am a nightmare comforter and a teacher.  I am a nursery rhyme singer and a macaroni and cheese maker.  I am a taxi driver and a snuggler.

I am a Mother.  And I wouldn’t trade it for any other job in the world.

Jonathan - Incredible woman you are Melissa.

Deena - Thanks for sharing Melissa! You are a wonderful woman and mother!

Courtney - - you are a true woman melissa- a lot look up to you- keep workin’ it

Kendyl - I LOVE this, even teared up a little. I long for the day that I can be “Just a stay at home Mom.” You are an inspiration

Sarah Robinson - PUT BEAUTIFULLY!!!! You made me cry! So true and I am so glad you see the world the way you do! You amaze me!!! Every post you amaze me!

Crissie - So cute!

Erin - Wow, this touched my heart and made me cry… I am not even a mom yet and can not wait for the wonderful full time job it will bring me. Thank you for your stories and breathtaking photography.

mindi - Amen Sista! You are awesome! Such an inspiration! Love ya!

Beverly - What a special entry about your “Ah-ha” moment my sweet daughter!!

Jennifer (@JennyQ Twitter) - You will ALWAYS be grateful for your decision to leave behind the career and opt for mommy-hood. As a mom of 5, G’ma to 1 (2 more on the way), I never look back with regret. I always held my babies and enjoyed every moment of their lives. Best. Life. Ever. You go girl!

Calvin & Courtney: Married

These two love birds not only reminded me how rewarding weddings are to photograph, but they also made me….hungry. Seriously, all of the food and details were absolutely delicious! Calvin and Courtney, I’m so grateful to work with amazing individuals such as yourself. I love love LOVED being there with you guys! Hmmmm, lets start with this one…oh, Courtney, you saucy little bottle of hotness.

Cecilia Brown Photography - Oh my!!! I love this bride!!!! Beautiful beautiful work melissa!

Tammie - You captured the personality of the wedding so well! Great work!

Theresa Hains - I know what you mean by the food!!!! Geez! I got hungry just looking at the post! Amazing wedding!

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